How to have a perfect threesome according to escort Alice Grey

You may assume threesomes are something that only happen in porn or in the movies, but more and more folks these days are experimenting with the ménage-a-trois.

Three-way sex is the stuff of legend for many folks, but it's becoming more common in modern times. Surveys have shown that, along with kink and butt play, threesomes are gradually moving from the realm of fantasy to the mainstream. It's also a common request in the sex industry, with some escorts offering doubles and couples bookings to clients on a regular basis.

I recently invited escort Alice Grey into my bedroom for an honest chat about having the perfect threesome encounter. The discussion we recorded was published online as part of my podcast series ‘The Art of the Hook-Up.’

How does one get a threesome happening? And how do we ensure it goes well? If you’d like a few pointers, here are some of the useful tips I learned during our conversation.

Talking it over first makes the experience much better.

My first threesome was unplanned; the result of a drunken evening hanging out with friends. It was fun, but there was plenty of room for improvement. Not only did we feel terrible the next day, we also hadn't talked about our expectations, and everything felt a little weird afterwards.

Alice had a different experience. She was approached by a fellow escort and friend, who took the time to discuss her boundaries and make her feel comfortable. She says this made the experience much more enjoyable.

We often rush into these kinds of situations after a few drinks, because we're too nervous to discuss it openly. But planning does make a difference (as does being sober!) Whether you're contacting a professional, bringing the idea up with a romantic partner, or asking a friend (or two), it's better to be direct and have the conversation first.

Your first threesome as a couple can be nerve-wracking.

Alice and I both see a lot of first-time couples, and some of the stories can be quite funny. Our clients are often ridiculously nervous! It takes a while for them to realise that we’re just average, friendly human beings.

If you’re a couple opening your relationship for the first time, paying an escort has many benefits. Rather than chancing it with a stranger, you'll be looked after by someone who knows what they're doing and respects your relationship.

Doubles bookings can feel scary too. Being with two escorts at once can be intimidating. Fortunately, it’s our job to help you relax. Everyone’s nervous, and it’s perfectly okay…well, as long as you don’t drink an entire bottle of whisky to calm your nerves, because that can definitely make things difficult!

Safer sex might look a little different than what you’re used to...

When there are three people in the bedroom, keeping things safe gets tricky.

Basically, you want to make sure no sticky stuff from one person gets near the genitals of anyone else. So, for example, changing condoms between partners is a must. It’s also a good idea to keep an eye on where your hands are going – use your left hand for one partner, and your right hand for the other. If you touch someone’s pussy and then someone else’s, it’s a safer sex risk.

An experienced escort can help educate you on how to do safer sex in a ménage-a-trois. It's not difficult once you know how.

The internal condom is really useful.

If you’re engaging in a male/female/female (MFF) threesome, ‘internal condoms’ can come in handy.

These types of barriers are worn inside the vagina (or the butt, if you're into that). Once they're secured, they cover the whole interior of that area, and some of the outside area of the vulva, too.

Internal condoms make threesomes easy. If both of your female partners have one in place, you won't need to wear a traditional condom. You can simply swap back and forth without having to change your rubber every time – less less wasteful, and much less awkward.

If you do it right, threesomes can be incredible.

Choose the right escorts, talk it over beforehand, and stay on top of your safer sex, and you may find yourself having the time of your life.

But don’t take my word for it – I’m sure the gorgeous Alice Grey will be only too happy to show you in person.